I give you an option either kill me before my birth, if not then give me a society where I can live in and not where I barely survive!
I really need you to stand up and applaud these people – “She is to be blamed”, “She is a flirt”, “Loose Character Bitch”, “She had many boyfriends”, and of course “She invited him to rape her”
Yes! for me they do achieve a standing ovation of my middle finger.
Of course! They are the ones who know how it feels.
It’s 10:30 am in the morning and you are walking towards your college from a street where you have people going and coming and suddenly somebody comes running to you just to press your breasts and run away.
But mind it “It’s your fault” why the hell do you have Breasts in the first place?
Someone comes from behind and grabs your ass with both hands; you resist and push them away and try to even slap them. You cry for help, ask the passing car to stop. But it’s all in vain the guy has already fled and this car driver is too busy to help you.
But then, after all, it’s your fault. A stranger did this to you not because he is an “ass” but because you have one.
This family friend you call “Uncle” hugs you but actually he’s brushing his body on you. You feel it and dislike him. You tell your parents that you do not like him coming home. But then it’s your fault coz every time he comes you don’t greet but run to your room and shut it. You are mannerless for doing so.
You are standing in a bus which is full of people but somehow this guy comes and tries to touch you everywhere with the excuse you are on a bus full of people and this happens. Sleeping on a train and this strange man comes from nowhere and puts his hand on your bed sheet and no voice comes out from your mouth coz you are unaware and in a state of shock.
But then “It’s your fault”. Why do you travel in a bus full of people? Why do you go for an overnight journey in a train?
You are working in your office and this boss is trying to sleep with you, you try to complain but it’s your fault and you resign.
You are on your back home but this cab driver takes you to a place where it’s impossible for you to do anything. He calls his friends and then they rape you. It’s your fault it’s 6 in the evening and you took a cab.
These people who say it’s your fault don’t know how it feels, how this trauma of being abused helps you sleep well at night, these people know that you are even scared of your shadow because you are at fault.
I applaud all you who think it’s her fault! I bow to you because you know how its pains. I respect you because you are the parents, you are the brothers and you are the sisters too. You know these girls invited this.
Wake up for once!
They all rape you! They do it with their eyes, they do it with their hands, they do it every time they think of you naked. They torture you in their dreams, they master-bate thinking of you as a sex worker and of course, it’s not heinous yet. They haven’t actually raped you they are your friends, they are your family, they are your uncles and they are your aunties.
I swear I have no fucking idea what my anger on social media is going to achieve but yes it will help me vent it out. After all, I am a girl who believes and hopes society listens and can improve.
How foolish of me indeed.
I am sure we all remember “Nirbhaya rape case” in Delhi which led and forced the government to change laws. Did things change? Did fear of punishment make people think once before committing such heinous crimes? Did it even change anything at all?
We have 357,700 rape cases in India in past 3 years out of which 350 were committed in the police custody. 5400 were gang rapes!
This is just the number of cases reported. There are thousands that get unreported for its family member who did it, for it’s one of those people who think it’s a girls fault.
Isn’t it amazing! How these no keep rising now and then and what are we doing about it?
I am writing on social media, someone is out on the street protesting, someone is holding a candle and showing they care, somebody is ranting through messages and some on facebook.
“WE WANT JUSTICE”
For whom? The girl who did not and will never return home.
BUT THEN IT WAS HER FAULT
Parents who lost daughter
IT’S THEIR FAULT TOO… WHY LET A DAUGHTER LIVE??
The brother who blames himself for not being able to protect his sister.
IT’S HIS FAULT TOO. HE IS BROTHER TO ONE BUT SOCIETY TO OTHERS.
A society who is protesting.
ITS YOU FAULT TOO… YOU LET THESE KINDS OF GIRLS LIVE.
I am not sure if you get the message!
Can we just for once have a “ZERO TOLERANCE POLICY” against such girls they are meant to be fucked and brutally murdered.
Kill us before we are born!
If not then let us live not just survive!
WE NEED OUR FREEDOM!